Child and a suicide. How to notice, understand and help? Part 2.

The latest foreign data show that girls and boys have more than 90% of attempts to escape from life committed by poisoning as the least painful way.

Immediately advice to parents: do not leave areas of the dangerous drugs!Don’t forget that even a harmless, in your opinion, for a substance in large doses can lead to death. If the tragedy already happened, the only thing in your power is to call the ambulance and try to rinse the child’s stomach).

Help, children need, discovered suicidal tendencies, should be based on their causes. Mandatory supervision for the dangerous time, the resolution of conflict in family and personal life. In the event of a hopeless illness or other real life-threatening to delay a suicide may hope for a favorable outcome. When a child unawareness of the causes of suicidal intent assistance should be directed toclarify the intended border situation. It must be remembered that IN ABSOLUTE SOLITUDE, which is often artificially locks yourself, NOBODY can HELP HIM!

The effect of aid depends on the correct understanding and assessment of what is happening. Please note that the suicidal behavior of each child individually.

It is possible to allocateTHREE BASIC typesof suicidal behavior in children.

With this type of aggression aimed at the world, transformered into aggression aimed at the child (autoaggression). The suicide is experiencing a negative attitude and decides to take his own life WITH the PURPOSE of CAUSING SUFFERING HOSTILE ENVIRONMENT. Please note that the self-esteem of these children is very high, and suicide reflect an active, aggressive stance of the child.

This type is formed UNDER the THREAT of INTOLERABLE OR INEVITABLE PUNISHMENTS or situations fraught with moral and physical suffering. This attempt to escape from humiliation and pain is made a child with high self-esteem.

Type, characterized by very low self-esteem. Children-“the executioners” I consider myself guilty of anything, which, in their opinion, there is no forgiveness. Consider themselves nonentities, unworthy of anyone’s attention, care and love. They DECIDE on YOURSELF, because you deserve only death, and I think that the only way to REDEEM himself.

The definition of the type of suicidal behavior is extremely important to provide adequate care for the child directly at home.

Here are the most common first aid children who found suicidal tendencies:

it is necessary to distract from thoughts about death by ANY means. Also, the method of “honest praise”, which may not be deserved, but turned into such caring parents. It is desirable to focus the child’s attention on his achievements, POSITIVE qualities and do it not once, but CONSTANTLY!

need to convince of the error of their view of the coming suffering. (Works even trite phrase, “nobody is going to punish you,” and immediately an ARGUMENT supporting your words).

need to be convinced that he COULD NOT at all AFFECT the fatal event or worsen its course. It should convincingly explain the event, the idea that erroneous, in accordance with reality.

Please note! The amount of information provided to the child in a life threatening situation for him, must be exhaustive, and the LEVEL of EXPLANATION IS AVAILABLE in his age.

Every parent need to know that at the FIRST SUSPICION of suicidal intent of a child should CONSULT the child or adolescent psychiatrist. It is also possible that the contact will have to be repeated because the children discover a certain tendency to repeat suicidal attempts and suicidal especially demonstrations.

Mom and dad! Help your child importance has no equal! But don’t forget the suicides — unhealthy children, they need qualified medical help!

DON’T EXPERIMENT ON YOUR CHILDREN, DO NOT DEPRIVE THEM OF THE OPPORTUNITY TO LIVE WITHOUT FEAR AND ANXIETY, BREATHE!

BE ATTENTIVE TO WHAT IS HAPPENING WITH OUR CHILDREN — THE MOST PRECIOUS THING IN THE WORLD!

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